Did you just make up that term 'Schrodinger's feminist'? Gimme a break.

Even if a woman is strong and independent, there will be gender roles. That's just how both men and women are naturally built to be. Also one doesn't have to look weak to be cared for. I would like to be pampered and also pamper my man in return. Caring for each other and making them feel cherished doesn't have to be so transactional.