Trolls or troglodytes ???

I once came across folks on the internet indulge in the trolling of a certain female comedian. Mentioning the gender because it is important in this context. If you ever browse through a random Youtube comment section, that is where your hunger for a tasteless dessert with an icing of double standards will get satiated.

I don’t know if this is a western thing or plain indecency. You have males keeping count about how many women they have supposedly scored with. If you are a social nobody, you are labelled a nerd and treated like an outcast. If you had partners in the past and are of a certain age, you are termed a ‘run over’. Somehow men don’t get run over, only women on the internet do. For some good reason, these women chose not to get hitched to one of these lowly primates who thump their chest to announce their sexual prowess to other lowly primates like them, and tom tom about how they settled for a mate before their religious hypocrisy had a chance to see sense.

So now the unsatiated troglodytes make it to the internet for their daily dose of sadistic orgasm because obviously their primate partner they prematurely chose does not satisfy them creatively. They then prowl upon content creators earning a living by dissing them and their choices and preferences.

As per their low IQ and EQ logic, if you are not hitched or a jerk like them, then you are automatically a gay/lesbian. More specifically a closeted lesbian. All this venom being spewed using an identity with some random letters or numbers because that is the definition of modern pseudo-machoism. For this pseudo conservative, pseudo woke crowd, manliness is defined by everything below their belt.

You see the judgement can be done both ways. In certain cultures, people aren’t all that pro early marriage. To them it is an option a person with absolutely zero ambitions would take. Obviously, there are exceptions to the rule like in every case, but that is the general consensus. A family that respects choices will not force you to get hitched early. Marriage is a responsibility. It is a step you take when you feel ready for it not like an impulse buy on e-bay. If you have it sorted early, great. However, there isn’t any need to judge random people on the internet.

Guess every person has their own story to tell which determines what their deal breaker or maker is when it comes to decision making and their life choices. Why they would choose one person over another, why they have a certain type, choose to marry early or late, importance of family equations, how ardently they want their relationship to work, how much fidelity is important to them. It all counts.

For me and some others like me, it rather be late than fool around post marriage. Two people have to choose to be with one another after complete information regarding the other. Or else, it is a compromise built on lies and deceit. It is unwise to chicken out from your life stories. Ignorance is sure bliss, but the truth catches up sooner or later. If anything you should have your story crystal clear for yourself, your partner and your marriage. The rest of the world can take a hike. They never mattered anyway.

Now to unravel the hypocrisy. In an other incident, some male made an indecent request to an influencer and she went ahead and posted the message on her social media page. The internet went on to debate on how the lady was over-reacting. It outrages me when somebody abuses a person and also tries to decide how the action is supposed to be perceived by the opposite party. As though people are blind to all feelings of shame and all of it surfaces only when the woman calls it out. It is as though they are more ashamed of the act being made public than that it happened in the first place. This hypocrisy has always baffled me.

Some things can be said and done only in private, some others in public and some others should not be done at all, anywhere, at any cost. The fact that adults need to be explained this is appalling. I have seen people threaten others with ‘rape’ when their political ideologies do not match, like that is a new pastime. The most gutsy part about the whole thing is that these same punks are online with some fake profile with a brain the size of a peanut, non existent IQ and EQ and over the roof testosterone levels. They also pose in front of some political party’s banner because what is machoism without flexing about some distant political contacts or even non existent ones.

Eve teasing, bullying, name calling isn’t cool or powerful. Every time you do it, you only emasculate yourself. Needless to mention how big a turn off it is. If you have really nothing to do and plenty of time to kill, choose to look up at the ceiling and daydream instead. It is still time better spent than picking on people earning a honest day’s living.

You see, you can’t have your cake and eat it too. As for me, I can definitely forgo the icing on mine.