Telling a man what a woman admires isn't womansplaining. It is just their point of view about what they consider gentlemanly behavior. Its saying, if I were to chose a man what will my benchmark be. If you think manliness is pumping out in the gym and not counting when and where it matters, what can I say-It is a free world. You are allowed to have your interpretation of the term .

I am not judging gym workouts here. All I am saying is your character should matter as much as your physical attributes.