That's how it should be. Your major life decisions should be a choice. I always felt the same about marriage. One should marry only if they feel like it or have somebody they really want to share their life with. So, here I am 37 and unmarried though I love kids :D

Changing my mind about marriage now :) because now I feel like I want to be married. Also, adoption is a great idea. I have always wanted to adopt even if I have my own kid.