The same way that you generalize all women is the way some women generalize all men. I liked your first half but you did go off on a tangent spilling your hatred for the feminine in the latter half. I know it's your blog and you have the right to vent. I agree that we should be approaching disturbed people with more empathy. I wrote something similar on my page. Frankensteins of our making. Check it out when you find time. However you also don't have to let some random woman's opinion define you. Most people(men and women) go through rejection and bullying at a certain age and they outgrow that with time . It takes a certain maturity to look for something more meaningful and authentic in people than to be stuck in superficialities. That comes with age and the right nurturing. I am not saying the bullies are right but there are other ways of standing up to them than picking up a weapon unless your own life is endangered. As you said, a person's support system plays an important role here.