There is nothing wrong with a powerful woman either as long as she knows not to abuse that power. Some people have that power by virtue of their life experiences, but it is all about how you let it shape you. For eg: Putting up with a bully is strength but if you need to show a bully his/her place maybe you need power. It is like saying, Wealth is bad, no when you use it for enabling wrong practices or acquire it through nefarious activities, that is bad. Another eg is that countries can have hard power but when they use that for defending themselves, it is strength. When they are so strong that someone else not dare mess with them on account of the repercussions that may follow, that is power but if you use your dominance for bullying the neighboring ones, then that is abuse of power. Even physically you could build muscle but when you use it to bully the puny seeming ones then you have abused your physical strength.