y coding a…en were high value enough for me to give them my time. I am still doing personal work in this area. My insanely high maternal instinct and my coding as a ‘helper’ isn’t on my side in this mental re-frame. I am one of the most traditionally feminine beings I know and I am hard-wired to ‘accept, adore and adapt to my man’. That really hasn’t served me though… ever. It is finally becoming important to me as a human to protect my interests, assets, teenage ch…